When you hear someone say – absence makes the heart grow fonder – do you still believe him? Or is there more doubt now because you believe more on the out-of-sight-out-of-mind principle? Here are 7 breathtaking reasons why you should take your time off every now and then:
He’ll realize how much he misses you.
He’ll surely have butterflies in his tummy because he will miss your presence. He may have gotten used to seeing you around and have taken you for granted, but once you’re gone, he will suddenly become conscious of how much you mean to him.
It’s likely that he’d call you.
He would hardly be able to bear the thought of you being away from him so it’s likely that he’d call you soon. He’ll coax you to come back but if you’re wise, you’d know that the best response is to lengthen your vacation. Imagine how much he’d ache for you!
His anticipation would increase.
He must have gotten used to seeing you day in and day out. But now that you’re gone, he will wait eagerly for your return. You should be glad that you have decided to take a little vacation or he’d never realize how much you still mean to him.
He’ll reminisce of those happy times…
Since you’re not around, he is likely to look back to those moments when you had so much fun together. For as long as you have a great relationship, this guy will surely love to recall all those times that you’ve shared. If he recalls nothing but unkindness, then it’s likely that he won’t even feel any longing for you.
He’ll miss being cared for.
If you’re the type of girlfriend who takes care of her man, then he is going to miss all the TLC that you give him. Now that you’re gone, he’s would absolutely promise to himself that he will make you feel more special as soon as you get back.
He’ll be scared of losing you.
It would also probably creep into his mind that you left because you’re no longer happy with him. This should drive him to love you a notch higher as soon as you get back. He looks forward to showing you – all over again – that you mean the world to him.
He’ll revel at the fact that you’re not needy.
While other women would ask their dates or boyfriends to spend time with them, he would be grateful that you’re not – at all – like them. You’re one of a kind as you’re mature enough to live a life that’s separate from him yet your relationship thrives.
Source by Krista Hiles