If sex with him was a natural progression then you don’t have to worry about how to keep him after the act is done. A man will stay with the woman if she satisfies his other needs too. Here is what will actually keep him hooked to you.
Your attitude about sex
If you don’t give too much importance to the fact that you are having sex with him and focus on other aspects of the relationship then he will realize that you don’t intend to use sex as a bargaining tool. He will definitely respect you more than before if you begin doing this.
Stop pestering him
Men don’t like it when women push too hard for a commitment. They know that they are mature enough to commit when the time is right. The moment you push him he will begin to feel that you are an insecure and desperate woman. Just give him space and time to take his decision.
Keep the sex action great
Treat sex as it should be, a pleasurable activity that both enjoy, and don’t show that you are doing him a favor by allowing sex in your relationship. However, if you feel that he is only interested in sex then have sex only when you want it and not whenever he wants it.
Impress him with your other qualities
There is more to life and you than the occasional romp in bed. Show him how complete a woman you are and impress him that you really are wife/girlfriend material. After all you can have sex only for a few minutes and not the whole time that you spend with him.
If he is not the romantic types then take the matters in your hand and romance him. The way you talk to him or hold him will convey your feelings. Involve him in your activities so that you can spend quality time apart from sex. This will give romance a chance to bloom.
Respect his space
Have a life outside this current relationship and make sure you don’t intrude into his. Respect personal space and he will be thrilled to know that you are not the clingy desperate woman that all men are afraid of.
Have fun with him
Make sure that every moment you spend with him is spent in a happy and fun filled atmosphere. He should feel happy when he sees you off for the day. No long faces no nagging and no arguments. This way he will look forward to meeting you again and again.
Source by Krista Hiles