Are you slowly getting attracted to a guy friend of yours? But he already is dating someone, if you are patient and sure of yourself you can turn things in your favor. Read what approach you should take to get the guy you are interested in.
Analyze your relationship with him
Find out what he thinks about you, has he slotted you in the friend category and treats you as his buddy. He may not think of dating you for the fear of spoiling the friendship even if he leaves his current girl friend. So, you have to start behaving like a probable girl friend and stop being his buddy.
Pretend she doesn’t exist
Do not ever initiate discussion about his girlfriend, if he starts the topic listen patiently and make a mental note of things he says about her. You can gauge the level of his involvement through this. If he rarely talks about her maybe he is not too serious about her which makes things easier for you.
Dress up for him to take notice
Dress well in a classy yet sexy way to show your appealing persona. Let him see you in different light and not just as a friend and fun loving girl. Plant a seed in his mind that you are interested in him.
Remain in constant touch
If you know how frequent they meet then talk to him or text him as frequently, just take care not to smother him with your constant calls. Make him feel comfortable by being in touch so that he feels he can talk to you about anything whenever he wants.
Do not criticize her
If he talks about her, steer the conversation to another direction but refrain from passing disapproving remarks about his girlfriend. This will show you in poor light and may backfire if he starts defending her.
Smile and laugh a lot
Show that you are happy and fun loving girl and show your gorgeous smile; whenever you see him to make him realize that you are happy to see him. If you happen to see him somewhere unexpectedly say hello to show that you have noticed him. It makes him feel special.
You have to persevere a lot and have loads of patience for things to turn in your favor. It may take longer if they are a couple for more than a year. Or if they seem too happy together it is better to give him up as he may never see you as a girlfriend.
Source by Krista Hiles